the philosophy of alexism.....

children


I post these blogs because they contain ideas that I feel are important. I mean, even if you don't agree with me, at least I have inspired some thought on the subjects. But then, I read them and they sound preachy. Who am I to say what's what? One of the few things I know for a fact is that I just don't know.... ya know? Regardless.... I feel we're all here to do our part to make the world a better place. If my muse has whispered these things in my ear, it's for a reason and I am not one to judge. All I ask is... please, at least think about this stuff...


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Are you aware, I mean, really aware, of the fact that our children are the key to evolution? Do you realize that it is up to us to teach them, guide them, nurture them into beings greater than ourselves so that they teach, guide, and nurture their children into greater beings and on and on and on until... one day... human beings will actually evolve?

Why is it that so many people practically ignore their child while they are young, only to punish them for not behaving they way they should when they are older?

LISTEN TO YOUR CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!! They usually know what they need better than we do. When your child is saying something... listen to them. Try with all your might to understand them. And love them with everything you've got. Teach them to love their self unconditionally, so that they may love others the same way. Teach them that they are perfect as they are, and that they are beautiful. Do not instill the shame and doubt in them that your parents instilled in you. (And, by the way, you are perfect as you are as well.) Teach them to see the world through the eyes of others, to understand other points of view, to be compasionate, to be able to think critically to make their own decisions about life, to be independant and only do what they feel is right. TEACH THEM TO LOVE AND TRUST THEIR FEELINGS. And, the greatest gift you can give your child is to teach them, guide them, and nurture them in a way that ensures that they will be able to teach, guide, and nurture themselves early in life. Independence!!!!!!! The best gift you can give.